Tuesday 13 January 2015

Practicality. Or maybe not...

I was scared to write about this but I guess it's okay now. This post is about love. Yes, that typical fairytale post. Okay fine it's not. See, I'm the kind of person that acts strong so to write that fairytale post wouldn't really be my thing. So instead, I'll just try to write about the practicality of it. 
It's not like flying on top of the clouds or not being able to see anyone else. It's as simple as trusting,understanding and believing in someone and though they are you. It's to know that what they're going to say before that actually do, to sometimes put them above you because your happiness lies in theirs. It's looking at them when things get bad so that they can smile and make you feel like everything will turn out just okay. And then, everything and everyone, except them, looses the power to break you. It's accepting the good and the bad, only to make sure that all that's there is the good.
Alright that's enough, I'm going to break my "supposed" strong wall for a few minutes. Only to tell you that love makes you loose all practicality. Love is when sometimes you stop and realise that a heart beats for you right at this moment, that it beats with you and will continue to do so until they both cease to exist. 
Love IS a fairytale. Treasure it while it lasts. 


Double the faces.

There are a lot of different kinds of people in the world. Coming to college made me realise that very few people are the same both on the inside and the outside. There are times when you stop and look and even though there might be 100 people, you will see 200 faces. Almost every person, whether they admit it or not, wants to be accepted, to be liked, to have friends and to be part of a group. It's not wrong at all. It's human nature to want to be a part of something big, something that matters. But, one should be a part of something that let's them keep their individuality. Does it make any sense to hold on to someone who sucks the real YOU out of you?
And if you can't find a place where you belong then just know that there are many others like you and that they're waiting for someone to take the first step for them. Be that someone. Make your place and theirs too. Because not everyone fits in everywhere and because some are afraid to take the first step. And to let you in on a little secret, I'm waiting for someone to take the first step for me as well. I'm not sure where I belong or what makes me happy. I can lie and say that my happiness lies in someone else's but my life isn't a movie and thats not the truth. Everyone wants to be happy and maybe sometimes they even find their happiness in another person but somewhere down the line they will want to be happy, not for anyone else but for themselves. So, be honest to yourself and go out there and make your life the one happy place YOU want it to be.