Memories make up lives.

I tried and tried to get this one single post right. This is my 6th attempt at it and I'm going to make sure it's the last one too. What I want to say it's that difficult but since it's never happened with me it isn't that easy to put into words.

You know how social media is often used to display relationships between people. Well, what I noticed was that in case these two people end off on a bad note or sometimes maybe even on good terms, they erase all the memories that they had put out for the world to see. 

I know it's about personal choice and all that but how can you not cherish those memories anymore? I feel as though half the time removing the pictures and statues and what not associated with that person is in fact a way to let the world know. Putting pictures is declaring love and removing them is the final verdict. I can't write this very clearly because thankfully I haven't reached such a stage but I don't think I'd ever let go off all those memories. Something's end and we need to accept that. We don't need to use social media to get over something, in fact why do we even need to get over it? Why can't it just be a part of our life? Not a part that we are out to erase, not a part that we regret. Just a part that we cherished. A part of our life that has helped us in some way or another to be the person that we are, had given us memories worth more than just those pictures we set out to delete.

No one said life would always be good memories and nothing else. No one also said that you can't make your life go your way. Always remember that your life is that one place where you run everything, you decide who stays and who doesn't. You decide how and you feel and why you do. Life is the one happy place that you want it to be. And if it isn't so then make it, feel free to experiment, explore and most importantly, don't forget to make a few mistakes. 

Every memory is worth remembering. Be it good or bad. It was a part of your life and no matter how hard you try, you won't be able to erase it. Yes, you might be able to push it to the back of your mind but you'll never be completely rid of it. It will forever be a part of your life. 

Keep the memories, they'll make great stories. 

Just your life.

There comes a time in our lives when we try to do something thats isn't entirely right but it isn't the wrong thing either. It's just something that has to be done. And it seems as though there will always be people who will try to make that hard, try to push you away. Don't let them. Do what you want because they will eventually go and what will be left is you and your decisions.
I know I'm not old enough to comment on the human nature but I feel as though we try to exxagerate our problems to an extent that they become too big to deal with. The problem will probably be something small, something that we can get past but we will tell the world and increase its magnitude. And just for the record, no problem is too tough to deal with. If we really want to get over something, we can. We just have to decide to do so and then start the journey forward. I'm not saying that it's easy but I know it's not impossible. Somethings are worth letting go off. I know that it might seem wrong since if it is worth letting go off then why not worth keeping. Well, because not everything has the worth to be in our life. Those things are just there to teach us something important and that's about it. So be strong and let it go because if something or someone doesn't come back for a while, they probably aren't the person you should spend time waiting for. Move on with your life and when something has to return, it will. Start living your life like it's the most important thing. Don't play a cameo in someone else's life.