Let it go

They say you should wait and that if things aren't okay, it's not the end. But how on earth does one know when it is okay? Maybe the situation we are in, be it good or bad, is how our life is meant to be. What if that's our okay. There are a few things in the world that don't get fixed and that's for the right reasons. Because something needs to break for it to be fixed and it could be a person, you or me, who will break and its our choice as to whether we want to be fixed and nobody can fix us. They say that the people we love can fix us but what if they're the ones breaking us? Who fixes us then? We do and no one owes it to anyone to fix another person. You might be the reason that they're broken and human instinct will make you try to fix them once and if that doesn't work, it's not your job. It's no ones. It's their job to pick up the broken pieces and put them back because they know themselves the best. Nobody stands for anybody in the end. We are all like the stars in the sky, everyone sees us together and they think we're alike but we aren't and we never will be. We will always be different people who will break one another for our gains and there will be a point when all those broken pieces might fly back and hurt us. You can't shield them. And that's alright. Break and be fixed because flaws are the true essence of perfection. 

Also, forgive yourself for breaking someone because somewhere down the line they too will forgive you and until then you don't need to live in its guilt. True you made a mistake, it may even be a huge mistake, but if you've tried to fix it and it hasn't worked then it's not your duty. There is a level to which a person can feel pain and after that their wounds automatically start to heal. Time DOES heal all wounds and it always will. Maybe that's what we need to give each other, time. And sometimes to not try anymore is not giving up, it's just letting go because that's the right thing to do. So, take that chance and just let it go. And accept the idea that this is your okay, that this is the best it's going to get and that probably this is how it's going to be till the end.